My FH has a few relatives out of state that we sent them invites sincerely hoping they would come. I didn't invite my aunt/uncle/cousins who live 9 hours away. Keep in mind this is my third wedding....and well, personally they even didn't fly out to IL when my sister passed away so I really don't see them driving 9 hours to come to a third wedding. My FH thinks I should sent them each one (3 different families-8 guests total if they all come) but isn't it tacky to invite folks knowing they probably won't come? I do wonder how do I mention that I am married again even though I'm pretty sure I told them we got engaged last April....Ho Hum....what did you ladies do in this situation....invite or not to invite..that is the question.