So, my FH and I are on the younger end of the spectrum when it comes to getting married. We both go to school full time, and have full time jobs. We each make enough to support ourselves. We have been together for 3 years and he is my best friend. When we got engaged, my family was over the moon. They had been expecting it and everyone was super happy for us. My FH's family on the other hand was not thrilled at all. My FMIL keeps going on about not finishing school while my FFIL told my FH that we will fail and never amount to anything. My FH is their only child so I know it's probably hard for them to let go. I was also hoping they'd be more excited. They have made it very clear they they are not going to help us out with anything. They have a second house that they have owned for 15 years and is currently just sitting there. We offered to rent it from them and pay the mortgage and utilities, but they turned us down. To make matters worse, his entire family is strongly against it. His grandmother even had the audacity to post on my engagement picture on Facebook "Over my dead body until you both graduate from college." I want this to be a happy and stress free time for both of us but we are both so upset due to his family's reaction. I'd love to involve his mom and his family because I do care about them. Any advice on how to handle this situation? Feel free to also post your family nightmares on here as well.