So my husband and I got legally married last year and our big wedding reception is coming out. We just made the decision that we are still not comfortable having our full guest list and need to cut. Well my inlaws have invited nearly 30 of their friends (which they decided would be invited to our original wedding, I had no say in this.) Theyre saying they cant cut anyone because it would put them in an awkward position, so if we cut our list theyre just gonna cut all their friends out. We made this decision due to the fact we dont feel our whole guest list will be vaccinated by next month and dont want to have to worry about anyone getting sick at our event. But I’m also annoyed because they arent paying for anything and they never help plan anything, but yet I have to have all their friends at my wedding. My MIL has been judging people all year for doing things she deems “not Covid safe” so I also cant help but see the hypocrisy there.
We’ve already made the decision to cut all these people since they’re refusing to be flexible but has anyone else had to deal with family members or anyone else who has just been obnoxious like this? Looking for stories so I dont feel like Im the only one