I knew one of my bridesmaids was getting a divorce, but she just dropped a huge bombshell. She was having an affair and her husband found out. I am seriously stunned. I never would've expected this from her. I'm now really torn if I want to even have her in my wedding. I feel like if she couldn't take her own marriage seriously why would I want her standing up there for me to celebrate my marriage? She wants to bring her new boyfriend (the guy she cheated with) to the wedding as well. I'm not sure what to do or say at this point. Any advice?