I have a big question. I recently got engaged and, while we haven't done much in terms of planning or having an in depth conversation about planning, I immediately shared my idea of eloping to France and then having a reception party here in the states. My fiancé seems to dismiss the elopement idea because he doesn't understand why we would want to be alone and he wants his grandfather to witness the event. I have social anxiety and the thought of really anyone being present during the ceremony causes me a lot of anxiety. I also have the issue of both of my parents having medical issues and thus lots of debt so they aren't really able to travel for a wedding; we would probably have to have the wedding in my home state which neither of us want (my family is in Michigan and his family is in NYC). I want this to be a 50/50 planning effort and yet the bridezilla in me wants to make the dream elopement I've been planning for 10 years a reality. Am I being a spoiled brat? How can we compromise?
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