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Nay
Master August 2014

Don't sweat the small stuff - join the IDGAF CLUB!

Nay, on April 25, 2014 at 10:37 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 104

Seems like the closer I get to my vow renewal, the less I care about certain things. And seems like most of the back and married posts say "don't sweat the small stuff." Some of the things I can care less about are:

Addressing the envelopes - I printed labels for our return address, addressees and our RSVP envelopes. Who will really care or remember when they receive the invites anyway?

Hotel blocks - Our venue is a hotel and everything is in one place and we set up a block of rooms. At first I was babysitting everyone who said they would book a room but haven't done so. Now I don't care. If they miss out, they'll have to stay at another hotel and travel.

What are some things that you consider "small stuff" and are not sweating?

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Latest activity by Nay, on April 29, 2014 at 2:21 PM
  • Out the Window
    Master May 2014
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    Welcome to the IDGAF CLUB!! WOOHOO!

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  • Nay
    Master August 2014
    Nay ·
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    Lol OTW. I'm definitely part of the IDGAF Club for sure!

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  • Rach
    VIP May 2014
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    I've been on this level for a while now! Bottom line: I'm still marrying my best friend! Whether it rains, the flowers aren't perfect, my hair isn't absolutely perfect...we will still be just as happily married!!

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  • Mrs.G
    VIP August 2014
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    I'm there I could

    Care less about flowers since that seems to be the most costly I told my

    Florist 1500 make it work lol I don't care about the invitations I hand wrote all mine if people don't like it they can scratch no one is going to remember that your so right Nay.

    And Out the window that's awesome! Love the acronym

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  • Debbie
    Expert May 2014
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    I was stressing about decorating the seating area/aisle that's outside the venue, but they always have it so nice with flowers and plants that I said "F" that! No one is going to care and I don't feel like doing it! I'd like to be a member of the IDGAF club, please.

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  • F
    Dedicated February 2016
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    Where do I sign up for the IDGAF CLUB ? I'm starting to get that way. My FH told me last night don't sweat the small stuff only thing matters is we get married.

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  • MrsHicks
    Master June 2014
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    I am a proud member of the IDGAF Club!!!!! I used labels on the RSVP envelopes and I refuse to chase those that do not RSVP. You won't have a seat and you will be sent packing if you can't take a moment to let us know you are coming. That is all.

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  • Nay
    Master August 2014
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    LOL I added to the subject - Join the IDGAF CLUB. lol Love it OTW Smiley smile

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  • Rachel DellaPorte
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    Soon to be Mrs. G: "Care less about flowers since that seems to be the most costly I told my

    Florist 1500 make it work". On behalf of your florist, I thank you for that attitude. Brides like you make the job so much fun.

    Nay: How's that Jovani recreation coming? I am dying to see to the finished product!

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  • Nay
    Master August 2014
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    Hey there Centerpiece. How ya been?

    Met with the seamstress and just deciding on fabrics. Haven't had my first fitting yet, but will definitely post a pic when I do. Time is flying! :o

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  • M
    Master May 2014
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    Mostly all of it. Especially 8 days out. LOL!

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  • Mrs.Thornes
    Super July 2014
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    Rach I agree with you 100%. I feel the same way.

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  • Brittany H
    VIP August 2014
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    I am joining the club as of today!!! I am having the same issues regarding hotel blocks. If people don't reserve their rooms oh well. I'm over it. LOL

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  • DisneyNut
    Master October 2014
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    We have a club?? Cool.

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  • Mrs.G
    VIP August 2014
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    The centerpiece florist your welcome I am def not one of those whinny I want I want I want brides lol I'm being realist lol

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  • Nay
    Master August 2014
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    Exactly Brittany. They can stay elsewhere or drive home for all I care.

    And here's another IDGAF thing. Two couples are coming from out of town (Memphis, TN and Dallas, TX). Hubby thought it would be nice to take them out to dinner. There's a restaurant at the hotel and we can do a prix fixe menu. I told both wives, and they still haven't changed their hotel reservation from Friday to Thursday which is when we would do it. Not taking anyone to dinner on Friday. That's my woooosahhh day. They don't come on Thursday, oh well. IDGAF!

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  • LadyMonk
    Master September 2014
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    Lol, I like it. What a cool club.

    I don't care about: card box, the stupid white line on my coloured envelopes due to crappy printing processes at VP (ok, I care a little, but I'm not going to fix it), I don't care if my bouquet is a perfect, I'm making it myself. Honestly I don't care if the day is "perfect".

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  • Rach
    VIP May 2014
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    I am waiting on Bennett's "I'm def a member of the IDGAF club" picture!

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  • Jessica
    Expert October 2014
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    I told my florist to just do what she wants for the most part! As long as the food tastes good I don't care what it is. I couldn't find the 'perfect' invites so I let FH pick them out. I still have 6 months to go and I already DGAF any longer!

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  • Jae
    Master June 2014
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    We just decided that were no longer having a rehearsal dinner. I don't want to pay for it or plan it , so oh well!!

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