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Divorce after couples months of been marriage

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Dayivi, on December 27, 2016 at 7:42 AM

Long story short we got married last October, it's both of us second marriage but he was single for 11 years after his firts divorce, we have been together for 3 years now he come to me and told me that he wants a divorce, he dosent want to break up with me he say he loves me but he wants the divorce, he said he dosent understand why but been marriage terrified him . So basically he wants us to stay together but not married. I told him if he go through with the divorce thing I will just pack my stuff and leave cause it doesn't make sence to me . He said that's not what he wants he just don't want to be married. I'm heart broken I hace two kids and he is the only relationship I had since I got my divorce with the kids father and I thought I have my life together once again now I'm terrified that I will have to start all over again. This is more like a vent but any one have any advice ? I will appreciate it .

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miss_abby · on July 10, 2017 at 6:40 AM
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Oh honey, I hope it all works out for the best! even though it may seem hard now, you need to be strong for your kids, and for yourself! I found an article about moving on after divorce (https://www.worthy.com/blog/worthy-living/7-tips-to-help-you-move-on-after-divorce/). You need positive inspiration to move on and be in a place where you can be truly happy.
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Olivia · on October 3, 2019 at 7:10 AM
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If he is not trying to save your relationships it's totally his problem. Don't blame everything on yourself! You can try visit a family therapist, maybe they will be able to found a problem. I don't honestly see the point of starting your marriage all over, but if he's insisting on divorce there's nothing you can do. If you reach a mutual agreement about your break up, you can manage everything peacefully without lawyers, you can fill all divorce papers by yourself at onlinedivorcer.com and save money for your kids. Of course, if you're gonna be going though a property division then you can't avoid hiring a good lawyer.
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Mark · on April 28, 2020 at 7:27 AM
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If you do not have common children, common savings and real estate, then try services like this in California
I'm sorry, but it happens
I hope my tip will help you to save money and nerves! Good luck
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