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Beginner October 2018

Divorced Catholic to remarry without annulment

jina, on September 6, 2018 at 10:37 AM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 6

So I had a civil marriage and divorce a couple of years ago. I am Catholic and my ex-husband was not. We were young and got married and ended up divorcing. I did not think it mattered to the Catholic church about the prior civil marriage since it was not a church or religious ceremony. I will be getting married in the Catholic church in a month and I am now reading that I would need to get an annulment which will of course take a very long time. I am thinking to go ahead with my ceremony since at this point I cannot change things and address the prior marriage after is the priest request to discuss it. I am getting married in NY. The Catholic church really needs to change some of its policies, because this is annulment is a long process. At this point as long as we are legally married, i can handle the annulment after.

Has anyone know someone who dealt with Catholic marriage and annulment.

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Latest activity by Evelyn, on November 17, 2019 at 8:44 PM
  • Brae
    VIP September 2019
    Brae ·
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    I'm not one hundred percent sure. So someone correct me, if I'm wrong, but there are 2 kinds of annulments. The first is legal, which I think would be pretty hard for you to qualify for, now that it's been years, and usually they are only granted if the marriage is shorter than a certain amount of time, or one party can prove that the other party purposely was deceitful in their intentions. The second would be a catholic church annulment. I think that's the only one the church can be interested in and because you weren't married in the church originally, you couldn't get that one. So I would look into your issue a bit more.
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    Master January 2019
    Cassidy ·
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    This should have been brought up more than a month before.
    Did you not mention your previous marriage to your priest when you initially met with him?
    If you wait and don't bring it up until later, they may no longer recognize this marriage.
    I would talk to your priest and get this figured out ASAP!
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    Master July 2018
    Cuoghi ·
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    Uhhhhh you know what is a long process? Getting married! Did you not tell the priest you were married before? That is literally one of the first questions they have to ask.
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  • 2d Bride
    Champion October 2009
    2d Bride ·
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    If you were Catholic at the time, and were married outside of the Catholic church without the Catholic church's permission, you won't need a full-scale annulment. "For a person who was either Catholic or married to a Catholic, and did not marry according to the canonical form of marriage (in front of a Catholic priest or deacon with two witnesses), and if the Catholic Church's permission was not obtained for this marriage (called a 'dispensation from canonical form'), then the Church could process this case as a 'Lack of Form.' The Church calls this an administrative process." https://www.catholicnewsagency.com/resources/life-and-family/marriage/catholic-marriage-and-annulments You might wish to find out whether this process could be completed in a timely manner.

    However, I agree with the others; I have no idea why the priest wouldn't have discovered and mentioned this issue before now.

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    Beginner October 2018
    jina ·
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    Thank you all. I received what now is bad advice from a family member. they told me since the first marriage was outside of church I do not need to mention this to the priests because it would not conflict with the church marriage since it was not a sacrament.

    I am now being told by a few people that I need maybe able to get a lack of form but how long that would take is uncertain.

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    Just Said Yes July 2016
    Evelyn ·
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    What ended up happening??
    I was previously married in a Greek Orthodox Church and now getting remarried in a Catholic Church. I’m wondering if I need an annulment..
    😔
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