Hi I am one of 7 Bridesmaids, however a Bridal shower was put together just yesterday when I received a notification on Social Media that there was an new event I have been invited to for the 27. Bride is getting married Nov 5 in St. Regis. I found it odd for a Bridal Shower to be put together so late as well as with an invite through Social Media. I have spoke to another bridesmaids & she told me the Bride said she wants ‘all’ of her bridesmaids to be there because she spent a lot of money on them, dresses ($100 Budget), hair & makeup so she wasn’t concerned about the short notice. As you know D.W. are not cheap to attend. I work Sundays and get paid time in a half. To find someone to cover my shift is going to be nearly impossible & I am nervous to upset the bride. On top this I found out that she will not actually be getting married in St. Regis but will be getting married at her local courthouse and throwing another party for this....I am very honored to have been asked to be part of her special day & support her marriage 100% but after finding out about the local celebration & courthouse marriage I am a little confused on how to feel. I don’t know if this is normal but most importantly I do not know how to go about telling her I will may not be able to make her shower & if I were able to what kind of gift should I get her? All honest advice would be greatly appreciated.....
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