My fiancé and I never fight. Never argue. However there is one topic that has always caused a huge argument. That is his college best friend and roommate. We were all friends for about a year before My fiancé and I started dating and during that time this girl and I didn’t always get along. When my fiancé and I started dating, from day one she didn’t support it. She was mean to me on so many levels. Would do things to undermine our relationship. Would tell him not to bring me to friend gatherings. But I never told my fiancé they couldn’t be friends and accepted the fact and honestly didn’t care because his friendship with her eventually just ran separately from our relationship (this was after many efforts on my part to be cordial and make it work but she just stuck her nose up to any idea of me being around). And she was the only friend of his who had any problem. His guy friends love me and have been rooting for us since day one. I honestly just wanted her to respect our relationship and respect that he loved me.
So now he wants to invite her to our wedding! There are so many hurtful awful memories that I’m not even sharing but through it all she and my fiancé carried on their friendship because they lived together and because I never told him he had to choose. So do I have to invite her because she is important to him? Even though the people at your wedding are supposed to be there supporting your union? and why do I feel guilty not wanting to invite her because I know it’s something he wants?
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