My cousin just got engaged, which is very exciting for her - so I’m sure she’ll be beginning the wedding festivities soon! With that being said, I don’t feel inclined to give her a gift for her shower OR her wedding. She did not give me or my sister gifts for our showers (she did not attend, and as she lives far away and I don’t plan to attend hers either), and she did not give my sister a wedding gift, so I am not expecting one from her come my wedding in October.
Her mother thinks her kids can do no wrong and I know she would be shocked if I didn’t give her daughter any gifts, though I’m also sure she’s unaware that her daughter didn’t give me anything either.
Do I need to give a gift just because it is proper etiquette? Or am I justified in not wanting to gift her anything?