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Master October 2025

Do you change your mind constantly?

Rebecca, on September 18, 2018 at 11:05 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 54

One minute, you're totally confident in your decisions. The next, you're questioning every wedding decision you've made so far. Are you innocent or guilty of constantly changing your mind?

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Latest activity by Natalia, on June 14, 2019 at 4:44 PM
  • Alyssa
    Super July 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    I don't change my mind constantly, I just struggle to make decisions at all!
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  • C
    Super October 2018
    Cassandra ·
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    No, I do my research and become firm on my decision. I don’t need the added stress.
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  • FutureMrsR
    Dedicated October 2018
    FutureMrsR ·
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    I struggle to make decisions haha. I just want things to be perfect! lol

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  • Jenna
    Savvy October 2019
    Jenna ·
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    With the big things, like the venue and DJ, not at all. I am having trouble deciding on small things, like colors

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  • B
    Dedicated November 2018
    Brittany ·
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    I thought I would be one of those brides that was like this, this, and this, Boom! and just have everything together easily because thats how I usually am and the wedding isnt super important to me. But now we have choosen to do a big wedding, I really want it to be good and I am struggling with decisions and then second guessing decisions, which I have found leads to more harm than good! Just need to stick to decisions and stop looking at Pinterest after I finalize things lol
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  • Chelsealeigh218
    Super October 2018
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    I'm the same way!
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  • Jenna
    Savvy October 2019
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    I feel so bad! One day i'm going with purple's and the next I feel as if purple isn't a good fall color

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    I totally understand Jenna! I had a hard time picking out colors for my bathroom so I can't even imagine how I'll be when picking out colors for my future wedding! Do you find yourself coming back to the same color?

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  • Jenna
    Savvy October 2019
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    I do, I always go back to a dark purple. But I feel like I keep changing my mind because sometimes I think purple is not a good fall wedding color

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  • Chelsealeigh218
    Super October 2018
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    Oh hahaha!! I could not decide on colors for the longest time! Like, I really have no preference so I couldn't pick!
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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    You could totally do purple for a fall wedding!! I love a deep plum for fall - seriously one of my favorites! Smiley smile


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  • Chelsealeigh218
    Super October 2018
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    A dark purple, like plum would go great with shades of orange and yellow for fall!
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  • FutureMrsB
    Expert March 2019
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    Thats how I feel about the wedding! At first I wanted something big since we both have big families.. Next minute I wanted something small and intimate.. But we have already booked for a big wedding and now I am wishing it was smaller! lol I am sure its going to be this way with a lot of things!

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  • AlmostAMurphy
    Devoted November 2018
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    Guilty! I haven’t changed my mind, only because I’ve already made a lot of decorations and stuff, but I always second guess my choices.
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  • Jenna
    Savvy October 2019
    Jenna ·
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    Thank you so much! You all are making me feel so much better about have purple for my fall wedding colors!

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  • Happy Hedgie
    VIP September 2018
    Happy Hedgie ·
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    Nope! I do my research, discuss it with FH and make a decision. Once we pick something we stop looking at other options so, we aren't swayed. I'm very decisive in my regular life though.

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
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    Keep us updated on what you decide for colors!!!

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  • Katie
    Beginner September 2020
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    Ive changed colors, venues, times of year, decoration ideas and everything in between at least twice a month in my head.

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    Katie, I'm totally the same way!! Did you and your FS make any final decisions that you changed your mind on?

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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
    Mrs. S ·
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    Nope I’ve been planning and waiting for this for a long time and I know what I want
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