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Rebecca
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Do you ever creep through your fiancé(e)'s phone?

Rebecca, on December 18, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 122

You borrow your fiancé(e)'s phone to do a quick Google search and the next thing you know your six months deep into his/her Snapchat history. Do you ever snoop through your fiancé(e)'s phone? Never, always, or sometimes? Thanks for dishing on all of your relationship habits! If you missed any of the...

You borrow your fiancé(e)'s phone to do a quick Google search and the next thing you know your six months deep into his/her Snapchat history. Do you ever snoop through your fiancé(e)'s phone? Never, always, or sometimes?


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122 Comments

  • caitie-lyn
    Dedicated January 2020
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    Never, I trust him

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  • FutureMrsC
    Expert October 2019
    FutureMrsC ·
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    Never. I have no reason to.

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  • Abby
    VIP March 2019
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    Never! If I ever go into his phone it's because I have a reason too. We know each others passwords.
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  • Taylor
    Devoted May 2019
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    Never! Neither of us have anything to hide so we're okay when we go on each other's phone. The only thing I have to hide is pictures of wedding stuff in my phone's photo gallery! I have pictures of my dress in there and he knows he's not allowed to look!

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  • Sunshine
    Expert January 2019
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    Nope, no interest, I trust him completely.
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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    I'm so happy to hear that you found someone who you trust! I went through a similar situation and it's such a relief not to worry about that anymore Smiley heart

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  • Veronica
    Expert June 2021
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    Never and I never will ever. There’s a line and if you don’t trust your FH that you have to go through his phone without talking to each other first then that’s a problem.
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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
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    Never. I respect his privacy, and he respects mine. He shows me what's in there all the time though anyway, so I don't have to be a creeper. He has to communicate with his ex fairly regularly, since they have two kids together. I understand that, and totally accept it. He doesn't need to show me those communications, but he always does. He says he just always wants to be totally up front about it. Whatever makes you feel better dude.

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  • Mmssecrets
    Devoted March 2019
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    I know his password but not really.
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  • Gabrielle
    Dedicated October 2019
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    Sometimes in the past. Almost never now. We've been together over 5 years. I'm pretty confident there's nothing to see lol

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  • M
    Super November 2019
    Melissa ·
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    I did once. I felt super ashamed about it about it and let him know.
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  • HayMrsO
    Master October 2018
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    Same here (well, mine is the locked one, for business purposes). But we use each others phones all the time. He even has my Facebook logged in on his phone (he doesn't have one) so that he can use Marketplace. Nothing to hide on either side.

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  • Gipperkm
    Super September 2018
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    Never. And he never looks at mine. We respect each other's privacy.

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  • Alyrae
    Super February 2020
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    Nope .... I dont really care to much about his phone .... I dont even know how to work his phone .... plus his phone in none of my business
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  • BecomingBecker
    Dedicated October 2020
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    It really is! I found my self thinking "I wonder what it's like to be with someone I can trust" when I was with my ex, that was probably the beginning of me getting the guts to leave, and I can now tell my past self, it's AWESOME lol

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  • Ginsteeca
    Expert June 2019
    Ginsteeca ·
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    We've never snooped on each other's phones. We only ever use the other person's phone when there's a need, so even that is rare.

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  • Summerbride77
    VIP July 2019
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    Couldn't have said it better.

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  • Hannah
    Devoted July 2019
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    Never. We use each other's phones, but It's not in a snoopy way, more of an "I'm lazy, can I use your phone since you're closer?" type thing.

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  • Fwbride
    Super July 2024
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    Only when I was snooping to see if he had received my engagement ring after we designed it together! I’m really bad with surprises and just couldn’t take the suspense. I found a pic of it and was immediately relieved and slept good all the way up until he proposed. I had a lot of anxiety about it and I wasn’t sleeping much at all so even tho I feel guilty I kinda ruined his surprise I’m glad I saved myself the stress.
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  • Brandi
    Dedicated May 2019
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    I used to be very insecure about who he was talking to or what he may be searching in the web. But I have realized that all that did was cause issues in our relationship and I never found anything anyway so there is no point in not trusting him.
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