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Do you ever creep through your fiancé(e)'s phone?

Rebecca, on December 18, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 122

You borrow your fiancé(e)'s phone to do a quick Google search and the next thing you know your six months deep into his/her Snapchat history. Do you ever snoop through your fiancé(e)'s phone? Never, always, or sometimes? Thanks for dishing on all of your relationship habits! If you missed any of the...

You borrow your fiancé(e)'s phone to do a quick Google search and the next thing you know your six months deep into his/her Snapchat history. Do you ever snoop through your fiancé(e)'s phone? Never, always, or sometimes?


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Thanks for dishing on all of your relationship habits! If you missed any of the questions you can start from the beginning here: Never, Always, or Sometimes?

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122 Comments

  • Savvy September 2019
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    Never. I respect his privacy. If I suspect something I will simply ask.
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  • Tara
    Savvy May 2020
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    Always. It’s not that we don’t trust each other it’s just our relationship. No secrets
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  • Kendra
    Devoted September 2019
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    I do not, I trust him! We do have each other’s passwords, but he has never gave me a reason to suspect something. Like a few people said already, I sometimes will be on his phone doing something like because my phone is dead or something. Sometimes I will end up on his Facebook and then realize I don’t know a lot of these people!
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  • Colleen
    Master September 2019
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    Yes that is how I am.
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  • Cecy Rg
    Dedicated October 2019
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    NEVER!!!! Temptations but I know we should have trust! We are getting married for all that love and trust!!!
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  • T
    January 2019
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    Then what is the Next ?

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  • MIWM
    VIP June 2019
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    I Never snoop through his phone. I trust and respect him.

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  • M
    Dedicated July 2018
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    We will use each other’s to search and look up things. I do not go through it stuff. I trust him and he trusts me.
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  • Victoria
    Dedicated March 2019
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    Have I gone through his phone? Yes. BUT, it was not to be snooping around. We will sometimes answers texts for the other and then I'll read whatever they are talking about just in case I am able to answer the message for him so he doesn't have to stop what he is doing.

    Or I'll read messages from his mom because that woman CANNOT be trusted. (Don't judge me)

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  • Lauren
    Devoted October 2019
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    Never.


    And if I ever felt the need to (haven't thus far) it would be indicative of a bigger issue and I'd take THAT to my therapist and then to my man after I worked through my insecurity in therapy.

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  • Jacqulyn
    Just Said Yes August 2019
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    Never! I respect his privacy
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  • Philippe's & Racheal
    Dedicated August 2020
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    Maybe every once in a blue moon see what's new. But we been together now for 7 year and I ready know what's in his phone and I know all the passwords and stuff I need 2 know.
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  • J
    Savvy March 2020
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    Nope. He's not into social media so I don't have to worry about it. Sometimes I'll check to see who just texted him.

    We do tease each other about our "boyfriends/girlfriends" that are people that we may mention in a conversations and we playfully overreact. It's pretty fun, and keeps what is normally an anxious topic lighthearted.

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  • Stephanie
    Devoted October 2019
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    I have a couple times but that was years ago when our relationship was a little rocky..we’ve grown from that part of our lives
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  • Rita-Jean
    Devoted May 2019
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    Nope! At least, as others have said, not as snooping. Despite him having an Andriod that is significantly larger than my iPhone, I do sometimes forget I'm on his phone if he gets a text or facebook message, especially if it's a mutual friend, lol. He doesn't have a lock on his phone, but he doesn't care in the least. My phone is locked, but I'll unlock it for him anytime he wants. No unsupervised time though, because he's a mischievous little stinker and wouldn't be above causing mischief in my phone like texting people or posting things to my facebook or something. (Nothing bad, and it would be so elaborate everyone would know it was him, but I'm very selective in what I post on social media, so, no. lol)

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  • L
    Expert June 2019
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    I have only a couple times, not in a long time though.
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  • Erikasviolin
    Savvy September 2019
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    Never, ever, ever, ever... EVER!

    I know his password and my phone is never locked. If we were to ever have questions, we would ask each other.

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  • Lafuturaseñora
    Devoted April 2019
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    When he had a phone always lol but I don’t know if it would really be considered “creeping”. We use each other’s phones and just kind of go through it like photos or stuff cuz we’re nosy & bored 🤪 I have nothing to hide neither does he. It’s the worst feeling in the world to have something on your phone to hide from your significant other.
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  • Tara
    Master May 2020
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    I did once or twice several years ago. I respect his privacy now.
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  • Amanda
    Dedicated March 2019
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    Sometimes. But it's because I've gone through my facebook newsfeed and just need something new to look at, not like snooping on them

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