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Andrea
Super October 2019

Do you feel a little sad about losing your last name?

Andrea, on September 18, 2019 at 9:39 AM

Posted in Married Life 73

I’m 30 days out from our wedding. I’ve decided to take FH’s last name. I’m so excited to do that, but there is a part of me that is a little sad to lose my maiden name. I’ve had it for 37 years. It’s a part of me! I’m super close with my dad and feel sad that we won’t have the same name anymore. 😕...

I’m 30 days out from our wedding. I’ve decided to take FH’s last name. I’m so excited to do that, but there is a part of me that is a little sad to lose my maiden name. I’ve had it for 37 years. It’s a part of me! I’m super close with my dad and feel sad that we won’t have the same name anymore. 😕 Will anyone else miss their maiden name?

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  • Janarda
    Devoted February 2020
    Janarda ·
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    🙋🏽‍♀️Yes, a little sad over here... will definitely take Lots of getting used to
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  • J
    Devoted April 2022
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    Heck no! I have a hyphenated last name (parents never married) so I CANNOT WAIT to drop it lol.
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  • Sharyl
    Dedicated October 2022
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    Yes and no! i think i'm a little more sad losing my middle name (mom's maiden name). i wanted to hold onto that name because my mom passed away 2 years ago but if i keep it, my name will be REALLY long lol

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  • S
    Savvy May 2020
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    I do!! I only have nieces... I'm the only one that has boys and only 1 of my sons has my last name.. so in the next generation hes the only one that can carry on the name... I asked my FH if I could hyphenate my last name.. now my last hope is my son has plenty of sons
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  • Jordan
    Expert September 2019
    Jordan ·
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    Very!! I am actually keeping my last name as a second middle name. It'll be a lot of work as far as the paperwork and stuff is concerned but it makes me feel better knowing that I still have that piece of me.

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  • Amanda
    Dedicated August 2019
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    My maiden name is always mispelled! His is much easier! Lol I did consider keeping my maiden name though (under middle name spot) but then realized it would just take me about 6 months to get used to my married name and then life continues on! I think it will really hit when i update my drivers license!
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  • Futuremrsm
    Expert October 2020
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    Nope, I cant wait to get rid of mine
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  • Madison
    Dedicated October 2019
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    You can always hyphen it if you dont want to lose it. No ones making you do anything.
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  • Destiera
    Devoted March 2020
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    I don’t feel that at all, but it’s only because my last name is my biological dad’s last name and we don’t have any relationship at all. I’m excited to take my FH’s last name because I think I’ll finally feel like I belong somewhere.
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  • F
    Super April 2019
    Future Mrs. Polar Bear ·
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    I've been married with my husbands last name now for 5 months. It's still hard to remember to say my "new name" instead of "old name" but I have no regrets. I do catch myself sometimes but I think it really depends on who you are. Even thought that's my dads last name, his grandfather was adopted into the family, so it's not our "real" last name anyways, not in my mind. So it's okay, and nothing has changed between my dad and I just because we no longer share the last name. We are just as kooky as we were before Smiley smile

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  • Kristin
    Savvy October 2020
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    I'm still a year out from my wedding and I already feel kinda sad about this! Definitely feels like losing part of myself after having my last name for (what will be) 29 years. And since my dad only has girls and my uncle never had kids, our last name has basically died out Smiley atonished

    Will for sure make it my new middle name after the wedding so I don't lose it entirely!

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  • Ashley
    Super October 2020
    Ashley ·
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    Yes and no.

    Yes because my dad has passed away and I love having that connection to him ( I know I don't need his last name to have that)

    No because I am so excited to have the same last name as him and our daughter especially since she is so excited for it

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  • Jennifer
    Dedicated September 2020
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    I haven't decided yet what I'll do. I really love my last name. Its very Irish and I always said I'd only change it if i married someone with an awesome last name. Well, FH also has a really good Irish last name (Both start with Mc--) so now I'm torn. I'm thinking I'll keep mine though. I'll be 38 by the time we get married. I've just had mine for so long I can't imagine changing it. If i do change it I won't even have to change my signature, they're pretty similar haha.

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