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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Do you get annoyed with your bridal party?

Lynnie, on May 21, 2019 at 11:24 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 110

Time to fess up! Have you ever gotten annoyed or irritated with your bridal party? Or has it all been smooth sailing? What happened that got your blood boiling?? Are you innocent or guilty? Next Question: Have you gone over budget? Back to the Beginning: Innocent or Guilty?

Time to fess up! Have you ever gotten annoyed or irritated with your bridal party? Or has it all been smooth sailing? What happened that got your blood boiling??

Are you innocent or guilty?


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Next Question: Have you gone over budget?

Back to the Beginning: Innocent or Guilty?

110 Comments

  • Laura
    Devoted January 2020
    Laura ·
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    Innocent. Love my ladies. Kept it SMALL to avoid drama. Have a maid and matron of honor.
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  • Heather
    Savvy March 2020
    Heather ·
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    Innocent only cause we r eloping but had my feel of snide comments from family.
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    Master June 2020
    Anna ·
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    Innocent. They are super laid back and east going and always helpful.
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  • Lizbeth
    Devoted May 2020
    Lizbeth ·
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    Hence, I don't have one hehehhehe I have enough with myself lol
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  • Heather
    Expert August 2020
    Heather ·
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    My sister and two cousins have been the best. They are my ride or dies and they will do whatever I ask them to do and beyond that, and they are my defense system when they know someone is trying to override me so I don’t have to be a bridezilla. But my other bridesmaid who is a friend is a DIVA. She wants to pick my colors and my dresses and just take over. She also wants to have her mom who lives in a different country make her dress instead of purchasing the one that she herself picked out. Ugh. Too much estrogen too many opinions.
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  • K
    Dedicated June 2020
    Kellie ·
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    I just asked my future sister in law to be my MOH yesterday- so no lol. She’s got amazing ideas, bring them on sis!
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  • Amber
    Beginner July 2019
    Amber ·
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    Lmao no because it's only my maid of honor. Small wedding party gives less opportunity to have conflict
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  • Karen
    Dedicated October 2023
    Karen ·
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    This one is easy because I don't have a bridal party! It's just the groom & me...no reason to fuss over people who don't get along!
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  • EllieRose
    Expert February 2020
    EllieRose ·
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    Innocent! My Bridesmaids are absolute queeeennnsss! I love them with all of my heart and they are the perfect amount of helpful!

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  • C
    Dedicated October 2019
    Caitlin ·
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    Ugh. Yes. I love my MOH dearly but she's driving me INSANE. She lives out of state, and I totally get how challenging that is (I was her MOH too) so I'm trying to be patient. She gets mad if I don't tell her things first (example, FH and I were contemplating various officiant options and she was upset that he was going to know the decision before her). She was upset that I didn't let her intervene in a disagreement between my mother and I about invitations (I can handle my mother myself). She planned a whole bachelorette party without telling me or any of the bridesmaids any details, and when I asked her for info a) she accused me of not trusting her to do it, and b) she was apparently planning it for THE NIGHT BEFORE THE WEDDING. I had to quash that one for sure. She sent out bridal shower invites before telling me/my mom that she was doing it and she sent them out 8 months in advance (with the wrong venue address on them, too)...pretty sure people are going to forget and nobody will show up. Everyone else is great. I'm just trying to not lose my mind on her and ruin a friendship.

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  • C
    Dedicated October 2019
    Caitlin ·
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    Ugh same girl. I told my girls back in November what their dresses, shoes, accessories were and that they needed to be ordered by June 1. Flash forward, the only person who has theirs is my MOH (and I ordered hers for her). They're saying "I want to lose weight first." Ummm no you had time. Order it big and have it taken in.

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  • N
    Savvy July 2019
    NikkiMJ ·
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    Omg yes! One of my bridesmaids is sooo sooo difficult! She lovesssss attention. Every single event I’ve has she has tried to make about herself. I’ve already threatened to kick her out
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  • Mrscolón
    Super September 2019
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    A couple groomsmen, for sure lol

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    Savvy November 2019
    Claire ·
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    Guilty!! When they don’t respond to my texts🤦🏻‍♀️
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  • Edith
    Dedicated August 2019
    Edith ·
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    Guilty, I actually got annoyed with my MOH just yesterday. Her and another friend of mine were supposed to come stay the weekend with me and help me get some of my DIY stuff done and have a girls weekend and at the last minute she backed out. Totally ruined my weekend. Now I just hope she shows up for my wedding.
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  • Arkilia
    Super November 2021
    Arkilia ·
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    Innocent, they are so sweet and helpful. They probably get annoyed with me though!
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  • Sarah Eliza
    Dedicated May 2022
    Sarah Eliza ·
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    I probably will but not yet. We’re a year out and I haven’t proposed to mine yet
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  • Mrscase2022
    Devoted March 2022
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    Guilty I actually ended up having to ask two of my previous bridesmaid to not be in my wedding but i was able to find replacements so it's not going to effect my wedding day.

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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
    Laura ·
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    A bit. My MOH has been a bit hard to pin down for any planning because of being a new mom. I get that and all, but I need to have some help and support

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  • Tonia
    Expert October 2019
    Tonia ·
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    Guilty. I have one BM who is very opinionated. We had a discussion about her overstepping her boundaries when I first asked. I know she means well, but she feels like her suggestions are the best. I have had to not tell her things to keep my sanity and our friendship.
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