Skip to main content

Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Do you go to bed at the same time?

Lynnie, on April 2, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 149

Experts say that going to bed at the same times is a healthy habit in a relationship. Probably because it gives time for intimacy and puts you on the same schedule! But in real life, sleep schedules aren't always that easy to coordinate! Do you and your future spouse go to bed at the same time?...

Experts say that going to bed at the same times is a healthy habit in a relationship. Probably because it gives time for intimacy and puts you on the same schedule! But in real life, sleep schedules aren't always that easy to coordinate!

Do you and your future spouse go to bed at the same time? Never, always, or sometimes?


cfb_1173533.jpg

giphy.gif



Next Question: Do you get jealous?

Back to the Beginning: Never, Always, or Sometimes?

149 Comments

  • S
    Devoted May 2019
    Sarah ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Almost always. Sometimes if he wants to stay up watching tv or playing a video game, I'll go lay down ahead of him. But we almost always go lay down at the same time.
    • Reply
  • Alexandra
    VIP June 2019
    Alexandra ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Always! I usually fall asleep on the couch, but then FH wakes me up and we go to bed together.

    • Reply
  • Ash
    Savvy May 2019
    Ash ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Sometimes yes, others no. Sometimes I'm ready before him and the opposite. After all, there is a difference between going to bed together and actually going to sleep Smiley winking

    • Reply
  • Kaitlyn
    Dedicated July 2020
    Kaitlyn ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Every night. It’s rare if one of us goes to bed earlier/ later than the other.
    • Reply
  • Whitney
    Savvy September 2019
    Whitney ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    98% of the time! It's always been this way.

    • Reply
  • Danielle K
    VIP June 2019
    Danielle K ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    (almost) Always. it is super sad if I am stuck out late and he is too tired to stay up or vice versa. We always try to be home and together before bed time.

    • Reply
  • Becca
    Super August 2019
    Becca ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Sometimes. I work m-f and his schedule is 4 days on, 2 days off, so when his weekends coordinate with my weekends, we usually go to bed at the same time. Weekdays, I'm a night owl and stay up later
    • Reply
  • Whitney
    Savvy September 2020
    Whitney ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Always! Unless one of us is not feeling well.

    • Reply
  • Jamie
    Expert May 2020
    Jamie ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Almost always!
    • Reply
  • EllieRose
    Expert February 2020
    EllieRose ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Sometimes. It depends on our night. We don't live together so bedtime can range from one of us at 9 to both of us at 1 AM. It's really just a matter of what is going on the next day!

    • Reply
  • Angela
    Expert June 2019
    Angela ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Ok, my only question is why is the question followed by a gif of Aunt Becky kissing a man who is not Uncle Jesse?!?! 😱🤣😂

    But seriously, I always go to bed way earlier.
    • Reply
  • Nemo
    Master August 2018
    Nemo ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Almost always. Sometimes I will go to bed earlier, but we usually go to bed at the same time.

    • Reply
  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
    Cristy ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    During the week: NEVER. He gets up for work at 3am, so he has to be in bed by 7-8pm to get a decent night's sleep. I'm usually up until 9:30pm or 10pm, as I can sleep in until 6am.

    On the weekends: ALWAYS. We try to go to bed together, as that's what we prefer.

    • Reply
  • Talia
    Super October 2020
    Talia ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    During the week, never. Weekends we always do. I have to get up at 5 am for work and he works from home so he wakes up a few hours later than me.

    • Reply
  • Diana
    VIP December 2019
    Diana ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Sometimes, I have weird working hours, so I may not be home until late. Plus he has to be up early in the morning so he goes to bed early. But if we have the same schedule we do go to bed at the same time.
    • Reply
  • Shaunte
    Expert December 2021
    Shaunte ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Sometimes. I'm a night owl and FH is an early riser. I usually go to bed at least two hours after him.

    • Reply
  • Allie
    Master August 2019
    Allie ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    We usually do when we are together. I know he goes to be a lot later when he is by himself.

    • Reply
  • Jenay
    Dedicated October 2024
    Jenay ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Sometimes, I’ll fall asleep and he’ll play video games with his brother and best friend and wake me up at like 2 am 🙄
    • Reply
  • Mrs.
    Super May 2019
    Mrs. ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Well we don’t live together yet, so no. He goes to sleep way earlier than I do.
    • Reply
  • Danielle
    Master June 2019
    Danielle ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Almost always, but sometimes FH has school work he has to do after our kids go to bed.

    • Reply

You voted for . Add a comment 👇

×
WeddingWire celebrates love ...and so does everyone on our site! Learn more

Groups

WeddingWire article topics