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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Do you keep secrets?

Lynnie, on September 10, 2019 at 11:50 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 95

Sometimes there's a good reason to keep a secret! Whether you're planning a surprise for your fiancé(e), keeping a trusted friend's secret confidential, or you know that your future spouse is a huge blabbermouth - do you ever keep secrets from your S.O.?

Never, always, or sometimes?


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95 Comments

Latest activity by Eniale, on July 14, 2021 at 11:08 AM
  • Amber
    Master February 2020
    Amber ·
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    Sometimes. Only if it's for the sake of a surprise.

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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
    Cristy ·
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    Only if it's directly related to a surprise I'm planning. Like right now, I'm working on a surprise for his birthday in November. So, I'm keeping those secrets. Otherwise, we tell each other everything, and we seem to be totally in sync in our thinking about this subject.

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    No aha. I'm terrible at keeping secrets, so I don't.
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    Never. Neither of us are surprise kind of people and other than that, I wouldn't have any reason to keep a secret.

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  • Jess
    Expert October 2019
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    We don’t do a lot of surprises but that is the only reason we would keep secrets otherwise no we don’t. our friends assume that when they tell us secrets that it’ll stay within our home but they know we’ll tell each other.
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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
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    Only if it's for a surprise but I'm horrible about keeping secrets so it doesn't happen too much lol

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  • Mrsbdg
    Champion August 2017
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    Never mostly because I’m the WORST at keeping my mouth shut. Not one birthday, holiday or anniversary gift has been given on the date. I get so excited I just need to show or tell him.
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  • Jen
    Super May 2018
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    Nope, unless it's a gift of some kind for him.

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  • Amanda
    Expert October 2019
    Amanda ·
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    Sometimes if it's gifts or surprises, but we both suck at doing that so not often.
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  • Brooke
    Expert November 2019
    Brooke ·
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    Never, especially since he's my best friend and I just always want to tell him everything (and vice versa)

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  • Erin
    VIP September 2023
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    Only if we’re planning a surprise for each other. We had some transparency and communication issues in the past, so now everything is completely out in the open, and well known.
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  • H
    Super September 2019
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    Unless it's a surprise, definitely not.
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  • Nicole
    Super October 2021
    Nicole ·
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    Sometimes, only if it's a gift/surprise for him.

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  • Yam
    VIP September 2019
    Yam ·
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    Nope. The one secret we’ve ever kept from each other are our wedding gifts for each other and he’s struggling with that. He keeps saying “I want to tell you so bad”
    We know everything, even the uncomfortable or ugly things. It’s how it’s always been since we were kids, best friends so NO secrets!
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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
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    Sometimes, but only when it's for a gift or surprise.

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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
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    Sometimes. Gifts, confidential things people have shared with me, etc.
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  • Ashley
    Dedicated August 2021
    Ashley ·
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    Never we are absolutely TERRIBLE at it and keeping surprises.
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  • Keisly
    Dedicated November 2021
    Keisly ·
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    Yeah, I think everyone has some deep secrets that they will take to the grave, but none that will harm our relationship
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  • Crystal
    Devoted September 2021
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    Only presents
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  • Darian
    Dedicated December 2020
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    No we tell each other everything as hard to believe or cliche as that sounds. We’re both open books and living on an island there’s no such things as secrets because everybody knows everyone and is bound to know something about you.
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