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Do you keep secrets?

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Lynnie, on September 10, 2019 at 11:50 AM

Sometimes there's a good reason to keep a secret! Whether you're planning a surprise for your fiancé(e), keeping a trusted friend's secret confidential, or you know that your future spouse is a huge blabbermouth - do you ever keep secrets from your S.O.? Never, always, or sometimes? Next Question:...

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Savvy June 2020
Annie · on October 1, 2019 at 12:23 PM
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Sometimes, if it's for a surprise or something personal that a friend/relative asked me not to share with anyone. I try really hard not to have secrets though because I talk to him about EVERYTHING and wouldn't want it any other way.
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Devoted October 2020
Andrea · on October 1, 2019 at 1:38 PM
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Surprises only. We tell each other everything. Secrets can kill a relationship and lead to no trust I love him too much for that.
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Beginner August 2020
Joanna · on October 1, 2019 at 4:21 PM
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I keep important secrets.
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Savvy November 2019
Elizabeth · on October 2, 2019 at 4:50 PM
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Never. Only if it's a surprise of some sort.
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Devoted July 2020
Kasyah · on October 3, 2019 at 10:09 PM
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Depends on the secret? If it's something with my bf that's girl talk and I'd think she'd be embarrassed if anyone knew then I won't say anything. Other than that, no secrets.
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Savvy November 2020
Jennifer · on October 4, 2019 at 4:42 PM
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Never. I only keep our secrets. I tell him everything.
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VIP November 2016
Tara · on October 21, 2019 at 2:19 PM
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I think I sometimes do keep secrets, but nothing serious or detrimental to our relationship. It may be about surprises, gifts, or something a friend asked me not to say.
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Savvy April 2020
Aurora · on October 21, 2019 at 10:11 PM
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Sometimes gifts of confidential information that I can’t share as long as it doesn’t relate to him.
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Devoted March 2022
Sweet'N'Rhodes · on December 24, 2019 at 9:17 PM
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Only for things like gifts or trips. I couldn't purposely keep anything else from him.
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Beginner June 2020
Rebecca · on February 18, 2020 at 3:48 PM
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Love too, just love too
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VIP October 2020
Anna · on April 6, 2020 at 9:26 PM
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Only for things like gifts.
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Mrs. Spring · on September 17, 2020 at 6:51 AM
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Rarely, but when I do, it has NOTHING to do with him.
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Devoted June 2023
Squeezy Bean · on December 18, 2020 at 11:23 AM
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Sometimes with gifts. Never otherwise.
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Super June 2019
Emilia · on July 13, 2021 at 11:40 AM
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Always. One can rely on me in any circumstances, really.
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Eniale · on July 14, 2021 at 11:08 AM
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Sometimes. I'm a very good secret-keeper.
Gifts or surprises, obviously.
But also, if someone else tells me a secret, it is not my business to tell my husband. And I expect that same respect from him.
Trust takes many forms. You have trust as spouses, but other people in your life also have trust in you. Being married shouldn't mean breaking others' trust. I don't think spouses are inherently entitled to absolutely everything you know or have been told, and I don't think that is being dishonest, either.
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