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Kathryn
Super December 2014

Do you know if its tradition or a superstition that says guets shouldn't walk down the aisle?

Kathryn, on October 13, 2014 at 5:44 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 13

I know in church weddings (at least the ones I have been to) you're not supposed to walk down the aisle as a guest, you "should" go around the side of the pews and take your seat that way. I personally might have some tulle tied between two chairs to discourage gusts from walking down the aisle (mostly because I don't want dirty shoe marks when I make my way down) but it got me thinking, is it a tradition or a superstition that says not to do that? Or is it just a cultural Catholic thing since my family is predominately catholic. Anyone have an answer about this? Its just my Monday brain deciding not to do any work at work.

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Latest activity by BunnyLove, on October 14, 2014 at 1:46 PM
  • DFG2014
    Super November 2014
    DFG2014 ·
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    My florist told me this, i really only think its an issue if you have some kind of flower petal design on the isle or a runner that you dont want to get messed up!

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    I've never heard of this. Usually the aisle runner is pulled down right before you come down the aisle.

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  • LJ411
    Master April 2015
    LJ411 ·
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    I've never heard that one. I say it's superstition. I've been to several Church and Non-Church weddings and have never seen that done.

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  • Kathryn
    Super December 2014
    Kathryn ·
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    Hmmm okay. This is good to know. I have to find out from my venue when exactly the aisle runner is placed. I love these questions I'm getting now and writing down, I meet with my venue coordinator soon and that is something I will need to know! LOL

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  • SnappyLove2015
    VIP April 2015
    SnappyLove2015 ·
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    I have always wondered this myself. I feel like I heard it once before that you aren't supposed to...but have also seen it done several different ways. I'm kind of with you on the tulle idea though.

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  • Elle
    Master March 2015
    Elle ·
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    I have seen aisle blocked off from the middle before. Usually because there are flower petals lining the aisle, or candles, or something else that doesn't need to get trampled or knocked over. However, I've never heard of blocking it off if there isn't any aisle decoration to protect.

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  • Kaegurl
    Master June 2014
    Kaegurl ·
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    Never heard of this or seen it done! Most of the ushers usually lead guests down the aisle and I've lived in three very different states and haven't seen it done for any type of wedding. I've seen where a very ornate flower petal arrangement has been brought in and they block off the aisle for guests so they don't trample it before the start of the wedding.

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  • ~Neschi~
    Super September 2014
    ~Neschi~ ·
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    My church only has one aisle down the center, so all guests walked right down

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  • Janeen
    Master January 2015
    Janeen ·
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    Wut?

    Are you asking out of curiosity's sake? Or are you afraid something will happen.

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  • Candyce
    Super January 2015
    Candyce ·
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    Today i heard that I am not allowed to walk down the aisle the day of the rehearsal because its bad luck? i havent heard that one before either, wonder if its any truth to it

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  • KTizzle
    Master June 2015
    KTizzle ·
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    I have never been to a wedding where no guests walked down the aisle. The groomsmen or ushers always usher the guests down the aisle (not a requirement, just what I've seen) and then seat them according to whom they know. Near the time when parents will be walked down the aisle, that's when I usually see guests only allowed to go around the outside. Again, I think it's just your preference. And Celia's right, if you're doing an aisle runner, the groomsmen/other attendants unroll that just before the flower girl and bride come down.

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  • Finally mrs.jkr
    Master June 2025
    Finally mrs.jkr ·
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    It's not a Catholic thing. I wanted to put some garland on the inside of the aisle and my church said no because it's a tripping hazard. But then if you look at Catholic wedding ceremonies in their basic form (not influenced by our superstitions) it's odd. Normally there's not supposed to be a bridal party, and the bride and groom walk down the aisle together.

    Not saying if you do that you're weird and that you wedding isn't good enough and all, it's just different than what we're used to.

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  • B
    Master December 2015
    BunnyLove ·
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    I grew up with this tradition. It's more of a southern tradition and mostly honored in churches.

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