Do you really need a ring bearer and a flower girl?

No need. We had neither and nobody batted an eye.

No one needs a ring bearer or flower girl. They are purely decorative.

I'm not having a ring barrier but I am having 3 flower girls (all nieces).

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I second this.

I don’t think it’s needed. I’m having two flower girls (my nieces) and no ring barrier

I’m only having one flower girl and no ring bearer

I don't think it's necessary at all. We are having a flower girl, no ring bearer. I've been to plenty of weddings without them, especially all adult weddings.

We aren’t having either!! The moh standing by me will have his ring, and the best man will have mine, they will hand it to us when it’s time

We aren’t having either, I didn’t want kids involved in my wedding. The best man will have the rings and we will already have flowers set in the aisle before everyone walks down

There’s no need. It’s really just a fun way to involve kids close to you.

Not necessary at all. Only if you want them/have children you want to involve.

My baby cousin is going to be my flower girl, because she's ALWAYS wanted to be a flower girl, and all her friends have done it.

Its not necessary. We are having 2 flower girls but no ring bearer. I think you should do what works best for you. If you dont want them dknt have them. Nobody will be bothered in the least by it.

Definitely not necessary. I’ve actually never seen ring bearers or flower girls at any of the weddings I attended.

We aren’t having either, but it’s because we have too many kids to choose from and I don’t want a bunch.

I haven’t been to a wedding since my brother’s 12 years ago that had them.

We are having them because of my niece & nephew.

No you don't. We're not having them