Do you think it's rude for guest to wear white

I would be slightly irked. Every wedding I've ever gone to, I dressed in colors. I personally see it as respect towards the bride. The bride should be the only one in white IMO.

Thanks@GryffinBride. I feel that but I think I'm mentally drained by everything else.

No. No one should wear white except for the bride. Like, I feel they know better too because why would they even think to ask that question? People have balls man.

You wouldn't be a bridezilla at all for telling them so, IMO.

Completely agree!!!

Ok so maybe I had a rough week because my immediate thoughts were to say "why? are you getting married that day too?" all snarky and shit. lol

Lmbo,@HoneyLife That's the new answer for everyone asking. Thanks

@gymrat apparently big balls because they're disrespecting RSVP's, colors and everything else. #need calgon.

I put it on my wedding website and I will put it on my invitations. Just say no, please respect my wishes.

Please don't put that on your invitations.

Also, it doesn't bother me but if it bothers you then just say no!

I could not care less. Nobody I know will be mistaken for the bride and it is usually hotter than hell or freezing cold here at the end of June. I want them to be comfortable and light colors (even white) may help with that. What so-and-so was wearing will be the last thing on my mind.

I would never do it, but I don't think it would bother me. If I were a guest at a wedding where another guest was wearing white I'd kind of side-eye them a bit... So I am sure they will get some sort of "judgement" from other people without you having to worry about it.

I would be a bit upset if a bunch of people showed up in white though. How many have asked?

I don't really care, but this is what I would say. "I don't feel comfortable telling grown adults what or what not to wear at my wedding.".

I find it super disrespectful. It's so easy to wear literally any other color and avoid the whole issue so I'll never understand why anyone would want to do that. A little white in a pattern? Sure, no big. A solid white or predominately white dress? No way.

I feel like if they have to ask you if its okay then they probably shouldn't do it. I personally would not like it.

No. Wouldn't bother me. This is one stupid 'tradition' I wish would die.

Yes especially because I'm not gonna be wearing white

First of all, what a strange question for people to be asking. Do they really not own a non-white appropriate dress or outfit?

I'm a little old school on this. I won't wear white or red to a wedding (was ingrained in me that red is too bold - yes, I know it's ridiculous but I still don't feel comfortable wearing red to a wedding; it just to be an old school southern thing).

At a friend's wedding recently, there was one woman who wore white and boy did she get a ton of side-eye along with some snarky comments directly to her. It was a bit much, but I think most people know that white is a no-no color for weddings unless specifically asked.

It's has been about 9 females that has called me. I don't know if this is a coincidence or a common thing?

No, I think it's fine. No one will outdo the bride.

Lol is this the damn question of the day?

No. It's not a big deal. I don't know why people care. There are bigger things in life to care about than what color adults wear.