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Alex
Just Said Yes August 2018

Does ending an engagement mean ending a relationship? Desperately in Need of Advice

Alex, on April 19, 2014 at 12:28 PM

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Hello all, I have been engaged since December of 2013 and date was set but things have changed between my FH and I. He repeatedly asked to postpone the date. When I asked why, he said it was because he wanted to get things out of his system and was not ready to be what it means to be a husband. I...

Hello all,

I have been engaged since December of 2013 and date was set but things have changed between my FH and I. He repeatedly asked to postpone the date. When I asked why, he said it was because he wanted to get things out of his system and was not ready to be what it means to be a husband.

I did not pressure him into this engagement, he just sprung it on me.He gets mad when I dont approve of his cheating friends (which all are), female relationships or going clubbing and dancing inappropriately. He doesnt see the big deal.

I feel like we are not on the same page. Last night, I called off the engagement and he told me that we might as well breakup and that I hurt him deeply.

is it possible to be in a relationship after an engagement has been called off? Has this happened to anyone? What was the outcome?

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  • K
    Dedicated October 2019
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    I think you can call it off, but that seems to be the least of your issues, unfortunately. If you can't trust your partner, you have some reflection to do.

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