I am not sure if I put this in the right "group". I have an issue with a recent confrontation I had with my FH. Back in March when we got engaged, my FH's aunt told me she wanted to plan my bridal shower (which is awesome! I am all for that!). She also asked me if she can help pick out my wedding dress, which was then that I paused for a few seconds and said ".......maybe". That made me feel very uncomfortable.
Yesterday, my FH bought it up again that his aunt was going to talk to me about getting in on my dress appointment. I told him that first of all, I was not ready to set up a dress appointment and I have no idea what I want. I also told him that it was MY decision who I want to take. He started getting mad at me and said very hustle-like "well she picked out Amanda's dress!!" (her daughter in law). I told him that I was not her daughter in law and I again can make that decision on my own. He then walks away yelling "ok I guess my family will have nothing to do with your decisions"! There were other things being said before he stormed off but I do not remember. I think at the end I said, without meaning it, "well she can pick up my freaking flowers then!"
I do not like confrontation. NOT AT ALL!! And I don't want to start fights over the most silly and stupid things. Plus, I do not want it to be awkward with his aunt. What do you think I should do?