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PrincessLawrence
VIP June 2018

Does your bridal party know each other?

PrincessLawrence, on March 1, 2018 at 4:02 PM

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So I have 11 girls and 11 guys standing in our wedding. A lot of then have met this past June at my FH surprise party but other than that they don't all really know each other. Did you do anything for them to meet before hand? Or did they meet at rehearsal dinner? I am just weird about people...

So I have 11 girls and 11 guys standing in our wedding. A lot of then have met this past June at my FH surprise party but other than that they don't all really know each other. Did you do anything for them to meet before hand? Or did they meet at rehearsal dinner? I am just weird about people knowing and meeting so its not weird at the wedding lol

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  • Orchids
    Master March 2018
    Orchids ·
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    My girls are my sister and my BFF, so I know they have met before but I don't know if they would recognize each other if they met up on the street. Smiley smile

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  • JenB
    Devoted June 2019
    JenB ·
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    I have 5 bridesmaids. One is my FSIL who lives out of state so she doesnt know any of them. 2 are super close, and 2 others are good friends. The 4 in state have met when we went to look at wedding dresses and bridesmaids dresses. We are all in a group chat so they "talk" on there.

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    Savvy July 2020
    Yvonne ·
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    I was thinking of having like a “Painting with a twist” party to have them meet each other and introduce themselves so they are more helpful and open.
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  • K
    Devoted July 2018
    Kena ·
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    I agree. You definitely don't want them to be strangers not that they would mind but . Most people don't care because they are there to support the union but a get together amongst friends sounds like a cool idea
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  • NeLeibelToBe
    Devoted June 2018
    NeLeibelToBe ·
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    Three of my five were on a bowling team together (with me) so they all know each other. My MOH is my bf from high school so they have met her but aren't friends per se. My 5th is my sister, who again knows all the others but isn't necessarily friends with them. I just have them all contact info and called that good!
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    Just Said Yes September 2018
    ForeverAFloyd ·
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    Most of mine knew each other except for my FH’s sister (she didn’t know any of them) but I did a “bridal day” where we all went to lunch and tried on bridesmaids dresses together. They have each other’s contacts and have a group chat without me to plan stuff. It was a good icebreaker
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  • FutureMrsDiBattista
    Dedicated July 2019
    FutureMrsDiBattista ·
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    I have 7 girls and hes got 7 guys-- all of his guys know each other but since I picked from so many different friend groups, its different for my girls. Everybody at least knows 1 other girl in the line up! I have them all in a BM group chat and then they put themselves in a chat with the GM and without me and FH LOL. We have been trying to plan something for the entire party to get together but its hard since we live in NC and our entire party is in CT!

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  • MrsHanlon
    Devoted July 2018
    MrsHanlon ·
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    FH and I have 8 bridesmaids and 8 groomsmen, we started off by making a group chat for all of my bridesmaids to exchange info and ideas. The groomsmen include college friends of FH and our 4 brothers, so the guys all knew each other.

    At the start of our planning, I was feeling very off about my girls not knowing each other, so I planned a girls night in with candy/wine tasting, movies, drinking games, ice breakers, prizes, etc. Now they all talk and contribute a lot of excitement to the wedding together.

    Our Best Man and one of the bridesmaids also generously planned a co-ed Bach Weekend on a lake in VT at a beautiful AirBnB mansion for us, the bridal party and their SO's to get to know each other better.

    Even planning something small for your bridal party to get to know each other could do a lot of good for wedding stress! 💖
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  • Future Mrs M
    Super June 2018
    Future Mrs M ·
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    Yes, they all have met. They are my closest friends. We all do a lot (the guys and girls). We do big group outings and are around each other all the time. We also have a group chat my MOH started that has been nice!

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  • Chandell
    Dedicated August 2018
    Chandell ·
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    My bridesmaids all met but they have not met one of the groomsmen the best man is my brother so no introduction needed
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  • Brenda
    Devoted May 2018
    Brenda ·
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    I have 3 bridesmaids and none of them know each other. I sent an email to all of them to give them some wedding details (and so they’d have each other’s email). My MOH and 1 BM have each other’s cell phone numbers but the first time they met was my bridal shower. The other BM lives in Texas so she won’t meet anyone until the wedding. I also have a bridesman who met my MOH once about 7 years ago but he hasn’t been involved in any planning (that I know of).
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  • Happily Ever Mrs. H
    VIP October 2018
    Happily Ever Mrs. H ·
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    My MOH already knew my one bridesmaid, but two of them had never met the third. Thankfully, they all got along swimmingly!

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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
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    Most of them, the only thing is that most of them haven't met FH's nephew and niece!

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