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Doesn't Like Cats or Dogs - Red Flag or Deal Breaker?

Lynnie, on August 13, 2019 at 11:45 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 88

Would you marry someone who didn't love your fur baby? Or who doesn't want any pets at all? Or is it the other way around, and you have a firm no pet policy? Is a difference of opinion on your furry friends a red flag or a deal breaker? 🐾 Next Question: Smoking? Back to the Beginning: Red Flag or...

Would you marry someone who didn't love your fur baby? Or who doesn't want any pets at all? Or is it the other way around, and you have a firm no pet policy?

Is a difference of opinion on your furry friends a red flag or a deal breaker? 🐾


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88 Comments

  • Lex
    VIP September 2019
    Lex ·
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    Yeah we also have a tarantula 🙄
    My moms house is worse, she has hedgehogs and snakes and stuff.
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  • SraDeCarrillo
    Super August 2019
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    Dealbreaker (unless he had allergies). Even if we have no pets, it was important to me that he liked animals.

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  • AQuixoticBride
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    I'm very skeptical about people who don't like animals. So deal breaker if they just don't like pets at all. If my husband had said on our first date that he didn't like pets or cats specifically (since I had one), there wouldn't have been a second date.

    Thankfully, he loves them. But he does spoil the cats a bit.

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  • M
    Dedicated June 2021
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    My FH strongly disliked my cat at first (he doesn’t like cats), but after a year and a half of living under the same roof, they’re besties!

    Idk if we’ll ever get a second cat, but at least we both like dogs. 🙂
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  • Sierra
    Dedicated December 2019
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    Deal breaker. I LOOOOOVE animals. The same week my FH and I moved in together we brought home our first kitten. A month later, we got another. A year and a half later, we got another, and earlier this year we got our first dog! I couldn't imagine it any other way. We're have plans to start a small farm with all the applicable animals. I couldn't be with someone who doesn't like animals. If someone doesn't like animals, then they were definitely called out by one. Animals know people better than people do. Any person who doesn't like animals has probably been called out by one.

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  • Rachel
    Devoted October 2019
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    Yeah that's a deal breaker for me. I'm an animal lover and I have a beautiful doghter that I wouldn't give up for any relationship. That being said, my FH is more of an animal lover than I am and he has such a kind heart. We now have 4 rescues and I've told him we're at capacity... no more.

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  • F
    Super April 2019
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    Deal Breaker. No way, couldn't do it. Must love pets, meaning cats and dogs in my book. I always have at least one each and couldn't live without them.

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  • Katharine
    Expert July 2021
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    It would absolutely be a deal-breaker for me if my significant other didn't like cats or dogs (or most animals in general really). I love animals and I could never live without having pets for a long time. The longest I've been without a pet of some sort was a month, after my cat (17 year old, raised from 1 week after she was orphaned) passed away a few years ago. My fiance & I now have 4 cats together, and have every intention of adding 1-2 dogs when we buy a house in a couple years.

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  • Nodyia
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    Neither, we cant have any pets kids have allergies

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  • Natalia
    Expert October 2020
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    DEAL BREAKER! I will ALWAYS have animals in my life, and if they don't like it then sorry!

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  • K
    Expert February 2020
    Kristina ·
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    Deal Breaker - my pups are my kids, and if they didn't like someone I couldn't be with them. Dogs are a great judge in character. I remember the first few times I left FH alone with my furbabies, I was so nervous on if they would behave, or would he get frustrated with them but it all turned out well. One of my pups is now his 66 lb lap dog lol

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  • Chelsie
    Devoted May 2020
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    Deal breaker! Who doesnt love animals? We are an animal family.

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  • Mrscolón
    Super September 2019
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    Deal breaker for me with dogs!

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  • Megan
    Expert October 2019
    Megan ·
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    Honestly, if they had a hang up about animals, we wouldn't have dated long. I've always had a rescue animal and it's my goal to continue doing that. So, yes, no animals would be a deal breaker.
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  • Jessica
    Dedicated September 2019
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    Neither. Not big into either although we do have cats. I also like dogs. Sooo not a red flag not a deal breaker.
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  • Amber
    Master February 2020
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    Deal breaker if they don't like dogs. Even though I like cats, I get why lots don't, same reasons I don't personally want one. I should've left my ex inthe beginning when he told me he didn't like dogs Smiley ups

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  • Marlena
    Expert June 2020
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    Deal breaker for sure
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  • ALYSSA
    Devoted September 2019
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    Deal breaker, I love animals and believe they are part of the family.

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  • Andrea
    Devoted October 2020
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    Red flag....we'd have to come to some sort of compromise. I am an animal person, luckily he's a dog person.

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  • Katie
    Dedicated April 2021
    Katie ·
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    Doesn’t like dogs is a deal breaker. My dog is my child and we started premarital counseling, I told him that would be the one thing that I would call the marriage off for. My dog literally saved my life and if he can’t get on board with that then we can’t move forward.
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