THIS is why I hate when people say things like "last fling before the ring" and that bach parties are one last night of freedom. Um no. You are engaged. You don't get a free pass to do whatever or whomever you want just because "bachelor/ette party."
I wonder though if this wasn't the product of one of those Bachelorette party "lists". You know, you go up to random strangers and get or have them do something. Maybe this one was kiss a stranger, or get a stranger to kiss the bride. I'm not saying she should have... and that's WAY more over the top then was necessary to "mark it off the list". I'm just scrutinizing possible reasons. Then again, she could have been drunk off her ass too... in any event she is regretting her life's decisions now.
No one in my life would make a list like that for me. No one. All those people have been long gone because I can't make time for people who's morals aren't in line with my own. And I don't have time for cheaters whether it's who I'm dating/married to or whether it's my friends.
And I don't care what "list" I may be handed at my bach party. I'm an adult and that list will not force me to cheat. I'd just have my MOH kiss a rando for me, she loves that shit.
Master
May 2017
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@Special no "list" can make me cheat on my fiancé. And if that's all it takes then she doesn't need to be engaged. There is NO excuse for cheating. I'm sorry but any bride that participates in that is not deserving of a marriage in my book. That's disgusting.
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Ick. I just don't understand this mentality of "one last fling." Getting married is not the end of "freedom", it's the beginning of a new life together with someone you (should) love so much that you don't have any desire to make out/have a fling with someone else.
This makes me think of JamieLeigh telling us about her (now) ex-friend's "hen's night" and determination to make out with another guy at her bachelorette party. I wonder if that couple's wedding date has passed and if they still got/still are getting married.
I went out dancing last night for girls night out and got extra attention from guys after my BFF told them I am getting married in a few days. They kept saying "don't you want a last hurrah??" I had to call a bouncer on one that won't leave me alone.
I guess it's getting so common now. Absolutely gross.
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May 2017
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@O&L That's disgusting. You should be able to go out without people being disgusting.
@Future LC- I was going to post the SAME THING! Society has made it into a "last fling" and it's so not right. It is not an excuse to throw away the commitment you have made with someone. Ugggg I fear what our younger generations have to deal with/grow up with, cause I know we are all smarter than that
I've had guys hit on me before, in a bachelor party, obviously looking for something. I just can't help for feel terrible for their future wife... sad. Shout out to the all the good FW/FH/H/W's out there!