Obligation should not be involved anywhere and the people who bully to make it happen should not have any say. If that means not accepting money or not inviting them period, then you do what you have to. But the wedding should be a celebration of the couple. So why do people allow one day out of their lives for pthers to make decisions for them with intimidation and other tactics? It's not a family reunion that can be planned at a later date how anyone wants and without giving up your happiness. If someone doesn't like the choice the couple makes they can not attend or they can keep quiet and do it their way when it is their turn. Those who have already married should say anything except offer input when a clear breach of etiquette happens. Is there a particular reason people are afraid to set boundaries when they have no issues at other times?
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