Hi Ladies!
Just looking for a little advice here.
I have a friend/bridesmaid who is giving me some troubles. We have had a rocky friendship in the past (where she kicked me out of her wedding party and then begged me to come back) and I've tried to give her a second chance.
Most recently, the bridal party has been tossing around ideas about the bachelorette party; my sisters/family (who make up most of the bridal party) all have a very easy going, change your mind at the drop of the hat kind of personality, whereas said friend does not.
I received a text from her stating that she was stressed and feeling anxiety regarding the planning of the party, to which I apologized and suggested that she step down from the planning if it was causing her to feel this way and to communicate with the bridal party her feelings. Long story short, she blew up on me; calling me names, saying I was putting words in her mouth, being a miserable bi*** and so on. Mind you, this was all via text message. I attempted to call her numerous times to try and hash this out, as I feel texting is not the appropriate way to discuss something like this. She is now refusing my calls and will only text; will not communicate with my sister who is heading the planning for the party; is now being short and rude with other bridesmaids/friends; has decided to not be a part of the planning or attend the party.
I am feeling torn. How can someone claim to be a friend, yet say these things and then refuse to speak to me. Do I end this friendship completely? Do I ask her to step down from being a bridesmaid? I feel that if someone can't verbally communicate, how can a relationship/argument be mended.Andy advice or suggestions here would be much appreciated!
Happy Monday!
Libby