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Drama with the ex baby mama!

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Erin Wood, on July 5, 2017 at 3:05 PM

FH got this text today from his ex gf (daughters mom). It's 3 days before the wedding and she's bringing it up now?? FH and I did not invite her because we are not friends with her. She has disrespected me on numerous occasions and her and FH can't stand each other longer than 2 minutes. We were not going to invite her just for the sake of her seeing her daughter be our flower girl. Just having her and her bf there would have been incredibly awkward. FH ex wife (sons mom) is a good friend of ours so of course she was invited along with her wife and their baby. They were one of the first people we told of our engagement. Just not what I even need to be thinking about right now. Ugh!

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Shannique · on July 6, 2017 at 5:55 PM
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Wow... I agree with JessieJV
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#FitzforaKing · on July 6, 2017 at 6:24 PM
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I know this is a bit off topic but you should definitely be documenting all conversations with this woman. Sounds like she's resentful of her daughter being in a good household with a stepmother.
And just with her saying 'my daughter', I wouldn't be surprised if she tries to limit visitations (I'm assuming here that you and FH want to spend a good deal of time with his daughter). Make sure to document Everything. Just in case things get legal.
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Mrs.D · on July 6, 2017 at 6:48 PM
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You did the right thing. She sounds like a bitch. Don't let her get to you. Send her a few pictures later if you want, but that's more than she deserves.
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The Queens · on July 6, 2017 at 6:52 PM
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What makes her think she has some weird ex claim to be invited ESPECIALLY if you guys aren't really at good terms. Misery LOVES to TRY and find last minute company. You stand looking pretty and forget her. this is NOT sisterwives
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LoveisfortheByrds · on July 7, 2017 at 12:15 PM
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We have no intention on inviting FH's ex/baby momma to our wedding. She got married last year and sent him a text asking if he was expecting an invite to hers. As you said, it's about you becoming a family. She does not need to be a part of that. The PP who mentioned inviting to keep the peace....nope. I wouldn't ask her to accompany us to a dinner on our dime, I don't think you should, in any way, feel obligated to invite her to the wedding. Based on the second group of messages, it sounds like another way for her to stay in control of the relationship she does have with your fiance by using 'her' daughter as the pawn. Best of luck in this and don't let it get to you any more.
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