So this is just a little rant about what I think is too much drama from FH’s aunt. First, I should mention that a couple years ago at her house during a Christmas party she poked me in the stomach with her finger and said “What’s this? What are you two gaining weight together?!” Yep. So imagine my feelings toward her to begin with. Now she has been a widow for 10+ years and 3 years ago brought a drunk to future SIL’s destination wedding and he behaved horribly. There has been no one she’s dated really since then. She apparently started dating someone in April (our wedding is in August) and when she saw her invite didn’t include a plus one asked FH’s mom about it. I was then told I had to give her a plus one. I was annoyed, but fine. Then I hear her on the phone tell my FH “I’m not sure if I’m bringing anyone or not, I’ll let you know.” And her brother, FH’s uncle, told FH she was breaking up with him about 3 weeks ago. She texted FH yesterday morning, it will just be her. Then HOURS later texts back she needs the plus one, he will be coming, but she will let us know if it changes. Are you for real lady?! Is it just me or is this just absolutely ridiculous and rude? Her entire family will be there, she does not need a date, especially a flaky one!!! Ugh!! Anyone had similar experiences? Am I overreacting because I dislike her to begin with?