I bought my dress back in July almost right after I got engaged. It is the most beautiful dress I have ever seen or put on my body but now that it is tailored to hug my body more, I feel like it draws too much attention to my not small waist. It is more of a fit and flare, all lace with a champagne colored lining underneath. Now that I am able to see my waist in it, I am thinking I should have chosen something maybe that doesn't draw the eye as much to my waist. I have also lost 26 lbs since buying the dress. I really thought losing weight would help me to feel more confident but in all honesty it hasn't. I want to feel beautiful on my wedding day and I cannot afford to buy another dress nor will I have the time to get another dress in with my wedding only 2 months away. My mom and sister absolutely love how I look in it but all I can see when I turn to the side and look at myself is a big girl trying to play dress up. I have shapewear that has helped some but I am thinking about getting some that gives me even more support.
Sorry to rant, I am just feeling really discouraged. Hope I am not the only one who has gone through this.
