FOR SOME BACKGROUND: when my fiancé’s brother got married his now wife invited me and FMIL dress shopping. She also had her family with her. After FSIL chose her dress, FMIL and I went back home. On the ride she was complaining the entire time how my FSIL did not listen to her opinions and didn’t choose the dress that my FMIL wanted. Now this was almost 6 years ago. However, her attitude today is pretty much the same about almost everything. If you don’t listen to her or act on her opinion and what she wants she feels offended and can become very emotional.
NOW: I will start dress shopping sometime during late summer/fall for a dress. I’ve told my fiancé that I would only want my mother (who’s paying a portion of my dress) and my sister (who’s my MOH) and my other sister (who’s a bridesmaid) to come shopping with me. I would be allowed this many people assuming things become better with COVID. If not I would only be allowed one to two. My issue is that my fiancé wants me to bring his mom to my dress shopping experience. But I don’t need her opinion and won’t weigh anything in any decision I make. I’ve already expressed my concern about this but he just doesn’t want his mom to feel left out. I understand that but I just don’t see the point of her being there. Low key I’m hoping I am only able to bring 1-3 people including myself.
Has anyone have to deal with something similar? How did you handle the situation?
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