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Dress - What would you do?

Sarah, on June 6, 2020 at 10:50 AM

Posted in Married Life 21

When I got married almost two years ago, I got married in a dress that wasn’t what I really wanted. I talked myself into keeping it because it cost almost $2k, and I couldn’t bare the thought of spending even more money on a dress. Fast forward to today, and I regret my decision. I would like to...
When I got married almost two years ago, I got married in a dress that wasn’t what I really wanted. I talked myself into keeping it because it cost almost $2k, and I couldn’t bare the thought of spending even more money on a dress.


Fast forward to today, and I regret my decision. I would like to sell my dress - it’s a beautiful dress, just not the look I ultimately wanted. I tend to be a practical person, and another bride could use it and look beautiful in it. However, my husband has said he would be a bit sad if I sold it, because it’s part of our memories together, but that he is ok if I decide to go ahead with it.
My husband typically isn’t very vocal about his opinions Smiley sad, so this makes me EXTREMELY reluctant to try to sell it. However, I’ve thought about having a vow renewal at some point during which I would buy the dress in the style I really wanted. I thought the money from selling my previous dress could go towards the dress I really wanted.
Ugh! I don’t want to ignore my husband’s feelings though. I know it’s “my” dress, but as mentioned, my husband rarely voices what he wants. What would you do if you were in my shoes?

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  • Sexypoodle
    Master October 2021
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    Lol!! 😂 The joys of voice texting without proofreading.
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