Dress woes

37 days together and feeling overwhelmed, plus there’s a lot going on otherwise. Idk if it’s grief settling in as well as nervousness but I feel even more indecisive lately. I’ve gone back-and-forth with dresses so much I just want to choose a dress and be done with my decision. Originally I chose one that is all sequined, which I loved. But after wearing an all over glitter/sequin dress for our commitment ceremony I could tell FH was disappointed in that dress so that makes me nervous to even consider the sequin wedding dress I originally chose or wear the commitment ceremony dress twice. I bought a dress that he really likes but the more I look at it & think about it, I’m not happy with it. I like it, but it doesn’t feel like me nor does it feel like a wedding dress. So I’ve been looking at other dresses that are available and I could get rather quickly now that we are down to the wire. Each dress I show to him he hardly even looks at and says he really wants me to keep the one he agreed on and wear it (and I feel like it’s more for the sake of wearing it just because I already have it. Mind you I can still return it for a full refund).


Here’s a pic of the dress he chose:

This is one I’m really considering buying that is similar to the silhouette and design of sequin dress I originally picked out:


I asked him if he likes it and he keeps insisting to wear the other dress. He asked if I don’t like the other dress and I’ve explained as much what I like and what I don’t like and I just get a sense that he’s a little disappointed. I just want to make him happy but also be happy lol and right now there are so many other things going on in our lives our wedding is something special to really look forward to so I want it to be really special for us. After seeing his disappointment with the first dress I chose I don’t want that for our wedding day. Help!