Eloped 2020 - Now feel silly having postponed wedding

Why do you feel silly?

It sounds like a great way to celebrate after a long time being apart, and so much horridness in the past year.

Call it a celebration of the marriage, and go party!

I don't think you should feel silly. We decided to cancel bc many of our loved oned are too afraid to attend a wedding bc of covid even if it's in 2021 or 2022.

I say go for it! There’s been so much drama and trauma over the past year, people would likely want to celebrate something positive and your marriage

We were scheduled to be married the 1st week of April and our wedding got canceled 10 days before so, needless to say, our wedding is paid in full and can’t get a refund. We married anyway (in our living room) and have since rescheduled our wedding twice. I grow more and more excited for this impossible wedding by the day. Def not silly. Every woman deserves her moment!

I don't think you should feel silly, but also it's completely fine to have changed your mind about throwing a big event. Priorities change, and that is normal. Talk with your husband about what you both want to do next and how you see the celebration. If it still sounds fun, go for it! If you have mentally moved on to a different stage of married life, then that's OK, too.

Don't feel silly! True, it may feel a little different - but people will want to celebrate! Especially after being apart for so long!!

So much of what makes your wedding day special is having your favorite people there to celebrate with you. These belated celebrations will definitely be worth waiting for!

My husband and I are doing the same thing, it doesn't feel silly to us at all because there's still so many people who we didn't get to celebrate with.

I would say to go for it! I definitely have felt weird about all of this, but honestly we are all going through it! So there’s lot of understanding during these hard times. We eloped November 2020, and due to Covid and finances, I don’t think we are going to have our celebration until 2022!