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Savanna
Just Said Yes June 2018

Elopement announcements - no registry

Savanna , on May 6, 2018 at 2:51 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 9

We are getting married with only our parents and siblings in attendance. No registry, We have been together for 8 years and have everything we need.

Nothing is mentioned on the announcements about gifts/registry. FMIL is concerned people may be too confused.

Should I include a little note saying we're all set and don't need gifts, just wanted to share the news?

9 Comments

Latest activity by Stephanie, on May 7, 2018 at 5:22 PM
  • earias
    Champion December 2017
    earias ·
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    Nothing about gifts should ever be mentioned on announcements even if you don't want any.
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  • ISaidHallYes
    VIP November 2018
    ISaidHallYes ·
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    I think you are fine just to send a nice card out announcing your elopement. I wouldn’t worry. Don’t put anything about not wanting gifts. I think People will be happy to see your card and you thinking about sharing the news with them.
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  • Jen
    VIP July 2018
    Jen ·
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    I wouldn't reference gifts on the announcement. If someone wants to get you a gift they will but I am guessing most won't since they aren't invited to a ceremony/reception.

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  • Savanna
    Just Said Yes June 2018
    Savanna ·
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    Thank you all - I thought that it was OK but FMIL had me worried because I didn't state "No registry/No Gifts".

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  • futurehappybride
    Dedicated September 2018
    futurehappybride ·
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    I agree with everyone else, congrats on the elopement dear! (My dream wedding haha)
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    I don't think people will be confused, they may send cash or check in cards but some will understand you are just announcing!

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  • S
    Dedicated May 2018
    Sharay ·
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    I think it’s fine not to say anything about gifts. Of people want to send something they will I wouldn’t worry about it.
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  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
    MrsV1027 ·
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    I wouldn't even bother with the note. My first wedding was just us, parents, siblings and one friend each. We sent out an announcement that we had gotten married and no one asked about a registry. Heck no one even sent a congrats card lol

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  • Stephanie
    Devoted October 2018
    Stephanie ·
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    We are in the same situation but been together almost 6, people have asked us about gifts, but we didn't put anything in the invitations, which were really just for fun since everyone has said they are coming.

    I think it's fine to announce it if you want to.

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