Hi y'all,
From the beginning my fiance and I have never wanted a big wedding and we have been so honest with family. We just don't like the idea of spending so much on one day, we just like the idea of using the money elsewhere/savings. I feel us slowly losing our battle though. We get negative comments such as "seems lonely" "you'll regret it for the rest of your life" & "it will be a hard pill for the family to swallow". Now, I never expected for everyone to agree with the decision but I guess I expected a little more understanding. We are both people pleasers, so now we are scrambling and CONSTANTLY changing our minds on what to do in fear of offending family! So, my question is, if you eloped? Did you regret it?
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