Engagement Conflict?

There's nothing to do. Just go with the flow

You could wait a couple days to announce your engagement. That's what my fiance and I did, and it was kind of nice to enjoy a couple days without people bombarding us with questions

Say YES lol. It's still not a fact so don't stress it. Men are a little clueless sometimes so if he does do it that day, know he meant no harm. If it does happen, which would be super exciting, just enjoy your moment with your boo. Your friend will have her wedding day and I'm sure you guys will have a blast then.

I agree with pp. Just go with it. Yes it's sad she had to postpone, but if he does propose on that day, then that's what he wants to do. You're also not 100% sure that he's going to propose that day, so I wouldn't stress over this too much.

If he does propose on that day and you're worried about hurt feelings, you could always just post about it the next day or something? But honestly, I wouldn't worry too much about that either.

View Quoted Comment I agree with Elizabeth! If he does propose on that day, and you say yes, you could always wait a few days to announce it! Take the time to celebrate with just you two (and gives you some time to prepare for all the questions you'll get when you do announce it!), and then tell everyone once the date has passed. You can definitely still support your friend on her original wedding date, and also celebrate your engagement (if your boyfriend chooses that day to propose).

Thank you, everyone! I’m a huge people pleaser, sometimes to a fault, so stuff like this makes me anxious but I would hate for that to ruin the moment if he does propose! Waiting to announce is a good idea just in case.

View Quoted Comment Elizabeth,


How lucky! My FH was so excited that he told his whole family and posted it on Facebook before I could get my dad on the phone. He was so heartbroken when he saw it on Facebook first and called me in a fury while I was still on the phone with my mother😭!
Haha, thanks for your post! How romantic, a few secret days together❤️! Best of luck!
Aubrianna Abbema

Say yes and start planning your wedding. Your friend's postponed wedding has nothing to do with the day your boyfriend decides to propose.

I don't know what your boyfriend proposing to you has to do with girlfriend?