Engagement party?

We also are not doing parties for either side. We are renting a cabin in the woods for a weekend and having the bridal/groom party and our parents and just spend time together camping.

Top golf would be fun, but it can be VERY pricey! Somewhere that has arcade games and bowling would be really fun! Mini golf, go carts, something like that? You could even have a game night where everyone brings a different board game!

Oh, I totally understand! My fiancee and I are planning on going on a little weekend trip with our grooms and bridesmaids. We're in the same boat as you, we're 23 and we do not drink at all! While our friends indulge in social drinking from time to time, we'd prefer to do something where we don't feel uncomfortable, so we thought about doing a small beach trip to Cali.

I don't drink, and I still had a fun bachelorette - my friends took me to Midieval Times!

We also did a *co-ed* trip, where two of our friends took us to our favorite baseball team, for DH's favorite player's retirement.

So... you can do whatever you want, it doesn't have to be what TV says it should be.

What about a fun game night? Have you heard of JackBox games? It's a blast, and everyone can do it on their phones which share to a screen, so it would be less contact too. You could do your fave snacks and center them around your relationship and memories with your shared group of friends. More affordable, more intimate!