My fiancé just told me he bought a ring today and it is currently being custom made but that there was a surprise with it. He didn't want to get a diamond because they are visually worth nothing and instead got me a colored gemstone. I don't know what color because honestly for me I like the surprise of it all but he has also been very open with each step he is taking towards proposing. We aren't technically engaged yet but he has the ring in the works and excitedly told me about it today. I had my heart set on a diamond or something that looked like a diamond, which he was also aware of. Is it bad if I am kinda disappointed it isn't a white stone? And would it be okay to express to him that I wanted a white stone instead? The ring I'd be happy with anything but the stone was what I was hoping would stay traditional. I don't want to come across as ungrateful because I am so beyond grateful for what he has done... I'm just unsure of how to go about it.
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