This might be a bad idea lol, but another post got me thinking and I truly want to hear from people with differing opinions, so here it goes!
I'm seeing a lot of differing opinions coming from people regarding basic etiquette and expectations of weddings in general. What I don't quite understand is how it seems as though it's easy to say "You don't need to do traditional!" but in other forums certain things that seem like more of a traditional mindset are being treated as though they could never be forgotten.
For example, I do not understand why weddings need to be regarded as anything more than just another get together anymore. This probably comes from the fact that I am not religious and many weddings I have gone to are just parties. But that being said, I also don't get why there's so much expected by the couple and by the guests. As a couple, if you're hosting a large wedding for the gifts, then I think you're hosting for the wrong reason. Why do guests need to bring a gift to a party you've decided to host? Any get together I have with a group of people I don't expect them to bring anything, and if they do a simple thank you in person is more than enough. As far as guests go, why do so many people feel entitled to random stuff because "I'm giving up my time and money." That's really nice, but if that's a problem then don't go? I would love for everyone we invite to come, but if they can't then that's okay and won't ruin my day. If it's too much to come then it's okay if they say no.
Okay, now that I've rambled, what does everyone else think of this stuff? It doesn't have to specifically be what I mentioned, but just all of the "required" stuff that seems to come along with weddings in general. I know this will upset some people and that's fine, I just truly want to hear differing opinions since I know we all have them.