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Super October 2019

Etiquette on Couple Separating Right Before Invitations

NextChapterReady, on June 18, 2019 at 10:34 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 4

Okay so my FH is friends with a guy and his wife. We've gone on vacations and stuff with them and they've been great to know. We sent out the save the dates to them in January. ... Well fast forward to last month when they abruptly separated. The guy is now dating someone married and also separated. FH is definitely more friends with the guy. So for his invitation what do we do? We obviously can't invite his wife, but it really bothers me to give him a plus one and have him bring his married mistress to our wedding because I liked his wife and it feels wrong since everyone's still married. Can we get away with just sending him an invitation with no plus one? What to do?

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Latest activity by Jennifer, on June 20, 2019 at 10:08 AM
  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    I would just send him an invite for 1 person, no plus one.

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  • NextChapterReady
    Super October 2019
    NextChapterReady ·
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    This is my preferred option and what I am leaning toward!

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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
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    Yes, he's separated from his wife, so technically "single" which means it's up to you and FH to decide if he gets a plus one. I wouldn't give him one, as that would be encouraging him to bring his "married mistress" and I'm sure nobody wants to see that.

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  • Jennifer
    VIP August 2021
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    Yes, just invite the "single" guy, no plus one. If he would be dramatic about it, that's his prerogative! It's your day and it should be drama free! Smiley smile

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