Everyone in Friend Group Invited to Bachelorette Except Me

Hi! I will try to keep this short and was hoping for some advice.


My fiancé’s friends are getting married in October. He has this friend group of four guys and their wives/significant others. They’re not bad people and I like them, but the girls exclude me when it comes to hanging out. They hang out with each other often and don’t invite me, and it upsets me quite a bit because I have no friends of my own. I’m not exaggerating when I say that, I have zero friends. When I do hang out with them, I get ignored and brushed aside when I try to talk, like they will immediately try to change the subject and they don’t act interested at all in what I say. So I prefer talking to the guys because I feel more accepted with them.
Some examples of excluding me are one time I was talking a walk and on my way back, I saw the girls hanging out outside (one of them lived by me). The one girl even saw me and didn’t say anything. I yelled “hey can I join?” and because I was literally standing outside her house they said yes. Another time, we all made plans to go on a day trip to my favorite botanical garden, I was so happy we were all going to do something I enjoy for once. Well one of the girls didn’t want to do that and said she wanted to go to a winery. So we all did what she wanted instead. I was super upset but didn’t say anything. I should probably mention, I have no similar interests with these girls, all they want to do is drink and any activity I suggest is shot down because it’s not drinking.
So back to his friends who are getting married. Everyone in the friend group is in the bridal party except for me. And I was already told I will not be sitting with my fiancé even though we will be married by the time of their wedding! I won’t know anybody else at the wedding except for the friend group, and I am extremely shy and anxious around people I don’t know. So I’m already not happy about that but there’s nothing I can do.
I just found out the bride is having a bachelorette party and again, all the girls in the group were invited except for me. And I just want to point out, I’m not new to this group of girls, I’ve known them for six years. So I’m angry now. All I want is to have some friends and these girls exclude me every chance they get. I try so hard to talk to them and text them but nothing works. My fiancé doesn’t want me to say anything because he doesn’t want any drama. Should I just give up on these girls being my friends?