I need some advice,
So here’s a long back sorry:
We all know when it comes to planning a wedding, it’s already super stressful, but I have been dealing with the anti-Christ, my future sister in law. My FH and I have been together for 7 years, and him and his little sister (15 months apart) share the same friend group. For the past 7 years she has been HATFUL to me. Wouldn’t invite me to things, leave me out of conversations, talk down to me in front of her/ his friends, ect. She also is the only girl in their family, all the siblings and all the cousins are boys. They also grew up with out a mom so EVERYONE and I mean everyone has let her have her way. Soooo she still thinks this way at 26 year old.
When it came to the Engagement, she wanted to help (because she wanted to be the center of attention) so despite everything my friends told my FH, he let his sister plan it. She only invited her friends, didn’t invite any of my friends until the week of, and didn’t invite any of my family.
Long story long, I made her a brides maid, she pissed me off, when my FH told her she hurt my feelings, and that it would mean a lot to him if she apologized to me, she told him, “you don’t want me to text her because it won’t end well.” excuse me?!? So, I took her out of the bridal party. Later on, we decided to have a Destination wedding, she throws a fit because 1. She’s not in the bridal party that doesn’t exist anymore 2. She can’t bring her kids 3. It’s in Mexico and not in Hawaii (yeah I didn’t get it either) 4. That her BOYFRIENDS family isn’t invited. (THIS ISN'T YOUR DAY)
She goes on on to tell him she hates me. That we are not allowed to see her kids, tells their friends that they can’t be friends with us anymore, makes the family have separate dinners because she doesn’t want to be around us, blocks me on Facebook and tells everyone that she’s not going to our wedding. (Okay sis 💁🏼♀️)
Flash forward to now, she is asking my FH for info regarding the wedding because she can’t see our Facebook page because she blocked me. He GIVES her the info and says that She can’t see anything because she has me blocked, next she says, “oh well I thought I would still be able to see the post. But will you keep me updated?” (Don’t be dumb, you know how social media works)
This is already so stressful, I don’t want her there. She always finds a way to ruin something, and I that’s all I will be thinking about on my big day.
I know jealous sister in laws are a common thing so what would you do? Uninvite her? Tell her to ack right if she wants to go? Or just let her go to the wedding and let her pout the whole time? Help!
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