Ex Boyfriend is getting released from Jail next month

Angel, I'd like to give him the benfit of the doubt and think that he has grown up alot in the last 6 years. Jail will make you think about certain things- and since he has been there, I don't think he wants to go back.

I'd try to get a copy of the judge's order that he cannot go near any of you, and keep it in your car at all times! That way, if you have to call the police, it's not your word against his- you have something to back it up.

If he does come near you, remind him it's a violation of his parole and you'd hate for him to get into further trouble. You wish him well, but you know that any contact will only hurt him- so, this is goodbye.

I am going to be very watchful. My profile is private on facebook and pictures can only be seen by friends (not friends of friends.) I hope he did grow up and leaves me the heck alone. Last time he tried to contact me was for my 18th birthday (he sent me a bday card, prison doesnt watch outgoing mail.)

Omg wow . I’m in the same situation, although mines did 10years for shooting at me in 9th grade after school . Always had history of cheating, domestic abuse with me he is in a gang as well … but one day he decided to shot at me with his new girlfriend and sisters in his car I was also in a car I was driving away fast getting shot at untill I crashed thanks to god I didn’t get hit only the car took damage court gave me full custody of my little one and indefinite restraining order
but he gets out in 3years I’m also concerned he will come back for me out of anger I know I can move away but my mom doesn’t want to and be knows where she lives
but I’m just terrified he will come to my moms home and try to harm some one there .