So I’m posting because I just need some reassurance that I did the right thing. I had a friend that really didn’t like my FH and she had no problem telling everyone in our group of friends that. She also told me that I was marrying him just because I wanted to get married and I wouldn’t be happy with him, plus some other hurtful comments. She also bad mouthed me to everyone in our group of friends. After that I stopped talking to her because I don’t need that drama (I did continue to hear from others in our group of friends, but that kind of dropped off). I got the RSVPs back today for her and another couple that we were friends with and they all sent their regrets. I just feel hurt because I know she bad mouthed me to everyone. I know I shouldn’t want to be friends with any of them if she can sway their decision to come or not, but it still hurts. It also bothers me because I wanted them all invited to my bachelorette party and shower (they are both surprises) and I don’t think they will come to anything. Just so you know I have always been supportive to this friend and all friends in the group.
We have invited about 170 people to the wedding, about 50 are mine (including the pastor and his wife) and the rest of the 120 are my FH’s family and friends. If these friends aren’t coming that’s about 10 people from my side that aren’t coming and that really hurts. I have a small family and some friends, but these people who I thought were friends really disappoints me. I shouldn’t have gotten my hopes up and thought that they would come.