My ex husband and I had a child together. We divorced as soon as it was legal to after our child was born ( you cant get divorced while pregnant in Wisconsin) because he was an abusive man in every sense of the word. I had kept my ex husband's last name so far for my son's sake, but I'm about to remarry and this entire time I've had my ex's name I've hated it. It has been a constant reminder of the abuse and it feels like a last grasp of control he has over me. My son having his last name though reminds me that my ex is his father and my son deserves my respects given to his father. My son shouldn't feel punished for loving his father even if I don't. Plus my ex would never go for changing his last name. Now that I'm getting remarried I'm lost on what to do with my name. I would honestly prefer and love to have my new husband's last name. One day though my children with my new husband will have my husband's last name and i dont want my son (who wont have the same last name) feel like less of the family. What do I do?
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