Fake eyelashes- I'm torn

I love how they look but I dont know if it's worth the discomfort all night. They make my eyelids feel heavy and gross.... so I'm not sure if it's worth it. Can someone shoot some advice over? I did two makeup trials ..one with and one without. They obviously look better on but God damn are they annoying. I'll post pictures of two trials
One is more natural and one is more done up...its a mid summer wedding so I really dont want to feel crusty lol