Hey all! So we are having our wedding in June and we will have about 180 people there. We are having a big mix of family and friends and we are pretty fresh out of college so lots of young people will be there. There are a good bit of people on FH's side who are very uncomfortable with alcohol, curse words in songs, etc (like they would leave the wedding, uncomfortable). That is something we want to be a part of the wedding, though.
So our idea was to have "clean" dancing (the basics, and family-friendly songs) and lowkey alcohol from 7-8 and then do a fake send-off so it feels like a natural way to get everyone we want to leave before we play songs we want (with curse words lol) and everyone starts drinking more. My only concern is that people who we don't want to leave will after the send-off since they won't know to stay. Is there a way to word the program maybe that there's an "after-party" after the send-off or something like that? Or should we just skip a send-off and just have the DJ let people know to leave if they want?
Thanks for any advice!